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Sully's Story
Sully (pronounced Sue-Lee) is a 22 year old vivacious young lady living in the campo (countryside) of Costa Rica. She is beautiful, brilliant and full of life, a life matured way beyond her years – more about that shortly.
Sully graduated from high school with high aspirations of becoming a nurse and working in a hospital or clinic. In her words “I would like to be a professional. I want to work in a health center because I love the people, I like the direct contact and I have the capacity to act in difficult situations in order to help people. I wish to share the atmosphere that there is in a clinic or hospital where the people need someone who can help them and relieve their pain in their body and in their mind.”
In early 2004 (the academic years begin in January – February in Costa Rica) Sully was on a solid track to realize her dreams. Because of her excellent grades in high school she was going to the University of Costa Rica (UCR) with a full academic scholarship, some help from her parents and a part time job.
Her third year was going pretty much as did the first two (getting wonderful grades, and thoroughly enjoying herself) until October 24th, 2006 when the first of two overwhelming events occurred. While walking to her apartment after school she was abducted by four men and held hostage for about four hours in a car. During that ordeal she was physically and sexually abused and tortured. One of her captors insisted that she be let go when he remembered her as a nurse that cared for his child in the hospital.
Sully was absolutely devastated by the attack, both mentally and physically. Burned and bruised she was told by the university’s psychiatrist the she should not continue her studies and should take time to heal. This was an agonizing time for Sully. She desperately wanted to continue with her studies as she was preparing for her final yearly exams and completing her practical, yet she knew that she needed time to recuperate. To complicate matters she also had partial amnesia; blocking out much of the attack, having a hard time remembering her name and telephone number but being able to remember most of her schooling.
Sully began settling in with her recovery, resting and receiving psychological help. Just as things were beginning to improve, on December 27, 2006 tragedy struck in the form a car versus motorcycle accident. Sully and her father were traveling along the Pan American highway on their way home on her father’s motorcycle (the family’s only form of transportation) when they were struck by a hit and run driver. Sully’s father received crushing injuries and abrasions, but Sully’s injuries were much more severe. When she arrived at the hospital she found that she had, among various bruises and abrasions, fractured her left femur in two places and her left tibula-fibula in 5 places. Due to the nature of her injuries, including open wounds in the fracture areas, she was told by the attending physician that she would have to have her leg amputated. After much begging and pleading she was transported to Mexico hospital, a more modern facility, in San José. There she received slightly better news when she was told that if there was no infection that the doctors would try to repair her leg. She had emergency surgery for stabilization, but then started the waiting game with Instituto Nacional de Seguro, the national insurance agency. She found that in order to receive the type of surgeries that she needed she would have to wait until after the first of the calendar year. So, for the next week she received basic care, IV antibiotics and pain management while in the ICU.
Her “real” care then began. Her first surgery on January 6, 2007 was to repair her femur and perform initial tib-fib alignment using external fixation and lasted eleven hours. Her second surgery on Jan 27th involved removal of the external devices and insertion of pins and screws in the lower leg and lasted 10 hours. She was then transported back to the hospital near her home (due to insurance reasons) for recuperation. For the next two and a half months Sully was alternately at home and in the hospital, for wound care complicated by infection, all the while receiving NO physical therapy. Part of her initial decision process (attempt to save her leg or receive an amputation) was that if she received the surgeries there would be no money for physical or out patient therapy. If she had opted for the amputation she would have received therapy – quite the dilemma! Since there was not adequate insurance, Sully had to clean her own wounds. She and her mother traveled on the bus daily to the clinic where a friend worked. This friend had made arrangements with the clinic to provide her with gloves, dressings and antibiotics, but there was no money to pay to have the work done.
All the while Sully’s parents were very supportive, providing round the clock care, helping her to the clinic and taking care of the mountain of paperwork. As soon as she was able, Sully began going to an internet café to learn what to do in the form of physical therapy, despite being told she would never walk normally. From the internet she devised her own program using the local pool. This involved using crutches to get to the local bus stop for transportation to town and then crutch walking to the pool. In July of 2007 she began to walk with crutches and by December she was walking without a cane – nearly one year after her accident. She began working part time in the store of a friend of the family.
In February of 2008 she had “hardware” removed from her leg and some scar repair.
She began making decisions about her future. She was told by her doctors that a nursing career was out of the question, that there was no way that she could stand for any length of time, move patients or otherwise function in that career. Undeterred, Sully took 6 courses in psychology, paid for by her father, hoping to embark on another professional health career. Then money began to be a problem. Since her family had limited income, and her sister’s “turn” for education was upcoming, Sully obtained a scholarship at Instituto Nacional de Aprendizage (INA) to learn to speak English. By August she was walking nearly three miles a day. Her plan was to get a job in a call center, abandoning her dream of a nursing career.
Sully began coming to David and Raylene’s house in September of 2008 with a group of INA students where they had weekly “conversation groups” - an opportunity for students to practice their English skills with native English speakers. As Dave and Raylene began to know the students better they got to know Sully’s story, and began to see her incredible potential. She had given up on nursing, her first love, but her desire to be in the healthcare field was still prominent.
When Pam came to Costa Rica in early December 2008 and met Sully, she saw that although it would not be easy, it may be possible to embark on a program of therapy that would allow her to perform all of the standing, walking and lifting functions of a nurse. Sully began to dream again and formulate a plan. She spent the next several days doing the footwork, investigating her career options and educational requirements. She decided that her best option was to first become a clinical psychologist and then to complete her nursing studies.
We are all committed to helping this most deserving young tica, and insuring her success with her "project".
Sully graduated from high school with high aspirations of becoming a nurse and working in a hospital or clinic. In her words “I would like to be a professional. I want to work in a health center because I love the people, I like the direct contact and I have the capacity to act in difficult situations in order to help people. I wish to share the atmosphere that there is in a clinic or hospital where the people need someone who can help them and relieve their pain in their body and in their mind.”
In early 2004 (the academic years begin in January – February in Costa Rica) Sully was on a solid track to realize her dreams. Because of her excellent grades in high school she was going to the University of Costa Rica (UCR) with a full academic scholarship, some help from her parents and a part time job.
Her third year was going pretty much as did the first two (getting wonderful grades, and thoroughly enjoying herself) until October 24th, 2006 when the first of two overwhelming events occurred. While walking to her apartment after school she was abducted by four men and held hostage for about four hours in a car. During that ordeal she was physically and sexually abused and tortured. One of her captors insisted that she be let go when he remembered her as a nurse that cared for his child in the hospital.
Sully was absolutely devastated by the attack, both mentally and physically. Burned and bruised she was told by the university’s psychiatrist the she should not continue her studies and should take time to heal. This was an agonizing time for Sully. She desperately wanted to continue with her studies as she was preparing for her final yearly exams and completing her practical, yet she knew that she needed time to recuperate. To complicate matters she also had partial amnesia; blocking out much of the attack, having a hard time remembering her name and telephone number but being able to remember most of her schooling.
Sully began settling in with her recovery, resting and receiving psychological help. Just as things were beginning to improve, on December 27, 2006 tragedy struck in the form a car versus motorcycle accident. Sully and her father were traveling along the Pan American highway on their way home on her father’s motorcycle (the family’s only form of transportation) when they were struck by a hit and run driver. Sully’s father received crushing injuries and abrasions, but Sully’s injuries were much more severe. When she arrived at the hospital she found that she had, among various bruises and abrasions, fractured her left femur in two places and her left tibula-fibula in 5 places. Due to the nature of her injuries, including open wounds in the fracture areas, she was told by the attending physician that she would have to have her leg amputated. After much begging and pleading she was transported to Mexico hospital, a more modern facility, in San José. There she received slightly better news when she was told that if there was no infection that the doctors would try to repair her leg. She had emergency surgery for stabilization, but then started the waiting game with Instituto Nacional de Seguro, the national insurance agency. She found that in order to receive the type of surgeries that she needed she would have to wait until after the first of the calendar year. So, for the next week she received basic care, IV antibiotics and pain management while in the ICU.
Her “real” care then began. Her first surgery on January 6, 2007 was to repair her femur and perform initial tib-fib alignment using external fixation and lasted eleven hours. Her second surgery on Jan 27th involved removal of the external devices and insertion of pins and screws in the lower leg and lasted 10 hours. She was then transported back to the hospital near her home (due to insurance reasons) for recuperation. For the next two and a half months Sully was alternately at home and in the hospital, for wound care complicated by infection, all the while receiving NO physical therapy. Part of her initial decision process (attempt to save her leg or receive an amputation) was that if she received the surgeries there would be no money for physical or out patient therapy. If she had opted for the amputation she would have received therapy – quite the dilemma! Since there was not adequate insurance, Sully had to clean her own wounds. She and her mother traveled on the bus daily to the clinic where a friend worked. This friend had made arrangements with the clinic to provide her with gloves, dressings and antibiotics, but there was no money to pay to have the work done.
All the while Sully’s parents were very supportive, providing round the clock care, helping her to the clinic and taking care of the mountain of paperwork. As soon as she was able, Sully began going to an internet café to learn what to do in the form of physical therapy, despite being told she would never walk normally. From the internet she devised her own program using the local pool. This involved using crutches to get to the local bus stop for transportation to town and then crutch walking to the pool. In July of 2007 she began to walk with crutches and by December she was walking without a cane – nearly one year after her accident. She began working part time in the store of a friend of the family.
In February of 2008 she had “hardware” removed from her leg and some scar repair.
She began making decisions about her future. She was told by her doctors that a nursing career was out of the question, that there was no way that she could stand for any length of time, move patients or otherwise function in that career. Undeterred, Sully took 6 courses in psychology, paid for by her father, hoping to embark on another professional health career. Then money began to be a problem. Since her family had limited income, and her sister’s “turn” for education was upcoming, Sully obtained a scholarship at Instituto Nacional de Aprendizage (INA) to learn to speak English. By August she was walking nearly three miles a day. Her plan was to get a job in a call center, abandoning her dream of a nursing career.
Sully began coming to David and Raylene’s house in September of 2008 with a group of INA students where they had weekly “conversation groups” - an opportunity for students to practice their English skills with native English speakers. As Dave and Raylene began to know the students better they got to know Sully’s story, and began to see her incredible potential. She had given up on nursing, her first love, but her desire to be in the healthcare field was still prominent.
When Pam came to Costa Rica in early December 2008 and met Sully, she saw that although it would not be easy, it may be possible to embark on a program of therapy that would allow her to perform all of the standing, walking and lifting functions of a nurse. Sully began to dream again and formulate a plan. She spent the next several days doing the footwork, investigating her career options and educational requirements. She decided that her best option was to first become a clinical psychologist and then to complete her nursing studies.
We are all committed to helping this most deserving young tica, and insuring her success with her "project".
Saturday, October 31, 2009
Thursday, October 15, 2009
Supplemental money to Sully
Sully was given 22,000 colones (about $38.00) today for her roundtrip (to and from school) transportation, food and drink at school and allowance. Of that, 3,000 colones was to buy textbooks.
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Wednesday, October 7, 2009
The September trips to SJ per Frank
A Day with Sully
Actually it was on two different days. When I heard that Sully had to come to San Jose to get some paperwork for her re-registration at Ulatina in Palmares, I decided to be her chauffer for the day to help her get around and maybe get things accomplished a little faster. A little wishful thinking!
I met her at Hospital Mexico about 9 AM, not knowing where we were going. It turns out that we had to go to the INS facility to get the first set of papers. We walked around the corner on a really nice sunny day. We all know what ‘around the corner’ means here in Costa Rica. This office is behind Hospital Mexico. INS has a huge complex of medical care for those injured in a vehicle accident. While she was inside getting the proper form I waited outside and spoke to everyone I could find that didn’t mind talking to a gringo who was attempting to speak Spanish. In a short hour I learned a lot about how the INS system works as well as discussing with the Newspaper/fruit juice vender about the state of business in Costa Rica. He was glad to hear that his bananas were cheaper that the supermarket Pali.
Now for the ride to the east side of San Jose to the University of Costa Rica. There is no easy way to get from Hospital Mexico on the west side of San Jose to UCR on the east side. On my first visit to UCR I was reminded of the hectic scenes of a large university. It has been 40 years for me and there is still no parking on a big university campus. After getting the official visitors parking pass, we drove around for a while before finding a spot to park. I am still not sure that the spot I chose was actually a defined parking spot, but the car was still there a few hours later. When in Costa Rican do as the Costa Ricans do.
First line was to pay to receive a transcript. Standard line of maybe 10 people or so. On the line next to show receipt and request a transcript. Then off to the general studies building to get the next paperwork. No line there, but they were short staffed and could not get the request until maybe the next day. As she walked away from the window I could see the frustration on her face and suggested that she get the name and phone number of the person she just talked to. At least she could find out if the paperwork is ready before she made another trip from San Ramon.
Next to the window to get the info needed to show that she had a scholarship previously at UCR. This was your normal line of 12 people ahead of you. Another face of disappointment was shown after she found out that she could not get the paperwork until the following Monday, but we plodded on. On to the school of Nursing for more papers. On the way through the maze of streets in the University district, we stopped for lunch a little soda and had a burger. I guess I am not used to Tico style burgers.
The School of nursing is about a mile from the main campus and in a fairly new multiple story building where all of the nursing courses are taught. She was gone in the back of the office for some and emerged after an hour with a smile of accomplishment. It turns out that the office staff couldn’t get the paperwork for her on that day, but she met a teacher she once had at the Nursing school who remembered her fondly. That teacher helped her get the necessary paperwork.
We made it back to Hospital Mexico by about 5 PM, so she could catch a bus back to San Ramon. She still had hours ahead of her before she returned home and I was exhausted.
The following Monday, she returned to Hospital Mexico, where I picked her up and headed to the east side again to UCR. I had learned my lesson about overstaying the 1 hour rule of parking on campus as a visitor. It turns out that you are placed on a blacklist of having overstayed the 1 hour rule, so we parked just off campus. After 3 strikes on the blacklist that placa number is banned forever from parking on campus. She picked up the paperwork relatively fast at UCR, but first she had to write a letter from herself for Ulatina. So off to the internet café to write a letter. The internet café just off campus only had competition for students’ money from the copy shops that lined the street.
After the letter was written and signed by her, we went to Ulatina not too far away from UCR. First we made copies of all of the accumulated paperwork. As this was the 3rd set of the same paperwork to be given to the school, we had the lady receiving the paperwork stamp and sign the copies that she had received this paperwork. The process will be simplified if they need another rest of paperwork, as the ‘certified’ copies will suffice. Mission accomplished!
Next we inquired at the scholarship office about getting her a scholarship for her future studies, to find that the person in charge was not in the office that day and she would have to come back another day. Get a name and number and make an appointment. She was told chances were not good about a scholarship as this is a private school and it would be minimal. But you have to ask.
On the way back to Hospital Mexico for the bus, we stopped and had lunch at the Gran Hotel across from the National Theater. It is always a special treat for me to have a cup of coffee and see the hustle and bustle of the heart of San Jose. You can imagine what treat it was for her. We talked about the high prices for a sandwich at the Gran Hotel and visiting the museums in San Jose. She had been the Gold museum on a field trip years before from the school she attended and that was it. We hope to remedy this situation and visit some other museums in the future.
She is now registered and attending class at Latina.
What did I get out of this adventure you ask---a lesson in determination, another lesson in patience, a finer understanding of the culture here, an understanding of the challenges that Costa Ricans face everyday, and why I live here. It’s all an adventure.
Frank
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Actually it was on two different days. When I heard that Sully had to come to San Jose to get some paperwork for her re-registration at Ulatina in Palmares, I decided to be her chauffer for the day to help her get around and maybe get things accomplished a little faster. A little wishful thinking!
I met her at Hospital Mexico about 9 AM, not knowing where we were going. It turns out that we had to go to the INS facility to get the first set of papers. We walked around the corner on a really nice sunny day. We all know what ‘around the corner’ means here in Costa Rica. This office is behind Hospital Mexico. INS has a huge complex of medical care for those injured in a vehicle accident. While she was inside getting the proper form I waited outside and spoke to everyone I could find that didn’t mind talking to a gringo who was attempting to speak Spanish. In a short hour I learned a lot about how the INS system works as well as discussing with the Newspaper/fruit juice vender about the state of business in Costa Rica. He was glad to hear that his bananas were cheaper that the supermarket Pali.
Now for the ride to the east side of San Jose to the University of Costa Rica. There is no easy way to get from Hospital Mexico on the west side of San Jose to UCR on the east side. On my first visit to UCR I was reminded of the hectic scenes of a large university. It has been 40 years for me and there is still no parking on a big university campus. After getting the official visitors parking pass, we drove around for a while before finding a spot to park. I am still not sure that the spot I chose was actually a defined parking spot, but the car was still there a few hours later. When in Costa Rican do as the Costa Ricans do.
First line was to pay to receive a transcript. Standard line of maybe 10 people or so. On the line next to show receipt and request a transcript. Then off to the general studies building to get the next paperwork. No line there, but they were short staffed and could not get the request until maybe the next day. As she walked away from the window I could see the frustration on her face and suggested that she get the name and phone number of the person she just talked to. At least she could find out if the paperwork is ready before she made another trip from San Ramon.
Next to the window to get the info needed to show that she had a scholarship previously at UCR. This was your normal line of 12 people ahead of you. Another face of disappointment was shown after she found out that she could not get the paperwork until the following Monday, but we plodded on. On to the school of Nursing for more papers. On the way through the maze of streets in the University district, we stopped for lunch a little soda and had a burger. I guess I am not used to Tico style burgers.
The School of nursing is about a mile from the main campus and in a fairly new multiple story building where all of the nursing courses are taught. She was gone in the back of the office for some and emerged after an hour with a smile of accomplishment. It turns out that the office staff couldn’t get the paperwork for her on that day, but she met a teacher she once had at the Nursing school who remembered her fondly. That teacher helped her get the necessary paperwork.
We made it back to Hospital Mexico by about 5 PM, so she could catch a bus back to San Ramon. She still had hours ahead of her before she returned home and I was exhausted.
The following Monday, she returned to Hospital Mexico, where I picked her up and headed to the east side again to UCR. I had learned my lesson about overstaying the 1 hour rule of parking on campus as a visitor. It turns out that you are placed on a blacklist of having overstayed the 1 hour rule, so we parked just off campus. After 3 strikes on the blacklist that placa number is banned forever from parking on campus. She picked up the paperwork relatively fast at UCR, but first she had to write a letter from herself for Ulatina. So off to the internet café to write a letter. The internet café just off campus only had competition for students’ money from the copy shops that lined the street.
After the letter was written and signed by her, we went to Ulatina not too far away from UCR. First we made copies of all of the accumulated paperwork. As this was the 3rd set of the same paperwork to be given to the school, we had the lady receiving the paperwork stamp and sign the copies that she had received this paperwork. The process will be simplified if they need another rest of paperwork, as the ‘certified’ copies will suffice. Mission accomplished!
Next we inquired at the scholarship office about getting her a scholarship for her future studies, to find that the person in charge was not in the office that day and she would have to come back another day. Get a name and number and make an appointment. She was told chances were not good about a scholarship as this is a private school and it would be minimal. But you have to ask.
On the way back to Hospital Mexico for the bus, we stopped and had lunch at the Gran Hotel across from the National Theater. It is always a special treat for me to have a cup of coffee and see the hustle and bustle of the heart of San Jose. You can imagine what treat it was for her. We talked about the high prices for a sandwich at the Gran Hotel and visiting the museums in San Jose. She had been the Gold museum on a field trip years before from the school she attended and that was it. We hope to remedy this situation and visit some other museums in the future.
She is now registered and attending class at Latina.
What did I get out of this adventure you ask---a lesson in determination, another lesson in patience, a finer understanding of the culture here, an understanding of the challenges that Costa Ricans face everyday, and why I live here. It’s all an adventure.
Frank
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Volunteering
Sully started her mandatory 200 hours of volunteering in the community today and needs to finish before she receives her Bachillerato. She is ‘working’ at P.A.N.I.(Patronato Macional de la Infanic). P.A N. I. is utilizing Sully’s psychology skills in different situations – from educating parents to phone contacts with abuse victims.
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